Reflections

Newfangled Nonesense- By Barb Lishko

I am attempting to stay up-to-date with the latest advances in bathroom technology, but every time I use the ladies room it is a whole new learning curve. What do I mean exactly? Some places have automatic faucets that turn on when your hands line up within the...

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Loved Into Exixtence

A glorious day awaits.... although every breath is a new beginning we make quite the deal of the new calendar year as human beings. I guess any day is as good as the next to begin anew in trying to improve ourselves. My mantra is all about accomplishing so much. I...

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Christmas Eve, beautiful, sunny and amazing

Hard to believe that today is the eve of Christmas. Without a deliberate intention of reminding myself frequently I can easily lapse into the "everyday" mode of life. It is so easy for me to get caught up in that. Stuff to do, more stuff to catch up on, people to...

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A Gift Poured Out

I love giving myself as a gift. I feel God has abundantly blessed me and while I joke about NOT being born with the "NO" gene, I do say yes a lot! Friday, my day off...NOT. I said yes to bake in Flagstaff for the NAU Newman Parents weekend. I loved it. Was blessed to...

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Filling the Unfillable Void

 By Barbara Lishko “Our hearts are restless Lord, until they rest in thee.”  St Augustine knew well what he was writing about, having spent part of his life filling the void with everything but God. It is difficult to watch people you care about “fill their voids”...

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Born in a Barn

I often recall when I come upon certain situations a statement my father used to say all the time when we were growing up: something, something blah blah blah"...were you born in a barn?" You could actually add any statement to proceed the infamous born in a barn...

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A Friday…

Life rolls on ready or not, prepared or not. How can we take the turmoil that hits us between the eyes, the unexpected twist, the drab routine at times...and turn it into a prayer, an offering, a means of salvation? "Blessed be God" in every situation. "Jesus trust in...

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Driving in Oven Mitts

It’s that time of the year in Phoenix, when we really do question why we live here. Could it be because it only gets down to ninety degrees at night, or perhaps because massive dust storms hit without warning? I would suggest that it is something more fundamental than...

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Abundant Outpouring

“What can I do to help?” These words echoed again and again as news of my surgery rang through our Church, neighborhood, friends and family. It is awkward being on this end of needing. I like being the giver. I am a Martha, and we like to be the do-ers. What I wanted...

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The Many Roles of Mom

May 6th, 2011 by Barbara Lishko It’s a boy!! Five long years of infertility had come to an end. It took a miracle at Lourdes, a lot of prayers, and a hope that never died. I think because I desired to be a mother for such a long time, I find such humor and joy in...

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Three High Holy Days

Today marks the end of Lent and the beginning of the Church's holiest 3 days. Tonight, Pope Benedict reminds us, that "God doesn't want to trample on us, but kneels down before us to exalt us. The mystery of the greatness of God is seen precisely in the fact that he...

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Pretzel In The Sand

All of us, I dare say, played in the sand at one point or another in our childhood. In fact we still head towards the sand as adults; it is just usually with a swim suit on and umbrella drink in hand. As children there was much to learn in the sandbox. They were a...

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Cleaning the Empty Nest and Lent

Twenty six years of kids will leave you with a lot of accumulated junk. Lost and forgotten treasures lurk within every box, stuffed in long forgotten tubs and drawers, all for the unsuspecting mommy to go through when the brood flies the coop. They seem to only take...

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Hardship For God

Pope Benedict says that when the disciples through the Transfiguration "experienced ahead of time something that will constitute the happiness of paradise" These "brief experiences that God grants on occasions, especially in anticipation of harsh trials." God knows...

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Cheerleader For God

“Give me a J, give me an E, give me a S-U-S, what’s that spell? Go-oooo Jesus!” That’s me at times, a real cheerleader for the Lord. As a mother and youth minister I have opportunities galore to get out the pom poms and give the rally cry for Christ. No, I don’t...

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Extraordinary Time

“You just don’t understand.” she told me in exasperation. “No”, I sighed. “I guess I don’t.” We had just finished this amazing day and a small inconsequential occurrence, that any other time would have been easily dismissed, caused her to rethink everything as the day...

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Being Simon

As a fellow human being on the road to hopeful salvation, I can at times let myself be overcome with the load of my own cross. Like anything else in my life the more I make of my burdens the heavier they can become from the bothersome weight of pity that I needlessly...

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How the Lost Get Found

While at work the other day I got a text from one of my sons, “where is the video camera?” After spending five minutes making sure I had each word spelled correctly and had properly punctuated, I texted him back. Ten seconds later his response indicated that he had...

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A Receptive Instrument

By: Barbara Lishko On a busy Sunday evening just before Mass began, a woman approached me in the narthex and asked if I was Barb. I responded that I was, and she got teary eyed and whispered that her daughter was deeply into drugs. She could no longer hold back her...

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Homework, Essays and Projects, Oh My

 ”Group Project” is a dirty word in our house. Yet the teachers in our schools feel the need to mandate these types of projects in the classrooms. I am sure that their intentions are good and their desire is for the students to learn to work together towards a common...

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Lost At The Mall, Tales of Miscommunication

There was a time back in the day when the kids were little and I would desperately search for ways to get out and do normal mommy things. This usually entailed dragging along the youngins‘ and risking public humiliation. For whatever reason, the mall seemed like the...

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