by Barbara | Nov 25, 2015
Thanksgiving-the National Vigil of Black Friday? What? Wait. NO!! Yes, I'm afraid we seem to have lost our way. This day, I thought was to stop, sit still, remember and be grateful. To surround ourselves with family and friends, you know those people that we are most...
by Barbara | Nov 22, 2015
As I proceed with my recovery I am currently seeking relief through therapeutic massage. Don't be confused with the massage word meaning I am in bliss, and total relaxation. That I am not. No, therapeutic massage is something quite different indeed. If you have...
by Barbara | Nov 15, 2015
It's been awhile since I updated my blog. What a roller coaster of a year. A move in January, a wedding in March, hit by a car two days later. Months of recovery. A new granddaughter in June. Lots of doctors visits, physical therapy appointments, and work all squashed...
by Barbara | Jul 18, 2015
About 8 months ago, I brought a meal and spent some time visiting a friend of mine who was having another bout with cancer. Two months ago that same friend brought dinner to me as I recovered from my accident. Two weeks ago I stood at her bedside as she unconsciously...
by Barbara | May 10, 2015
It's Mother's Day here in the USA. Why should we bother to continue this day of remembrance? Well for one thing, we all have mothers. Mothers are indispensable, a necessity whether they are our biological, adopted, or spiritual mothers. Mother's care, or at least they...
by Barbara | Apr 24, 2015
Its been a month since the accident. Each day a new beginning, challenge and opportunity presents itself. What do I do with it? While being hit by a car was never on my bucket list, it has provided me with a way to reach out to others who have experienced or are in...
by Barbara | Apr 5, 2015
It's been almost three weeks since I was hit by a car riding to work. That's the day my life made a hard stop and took a radical step backwards. I am back to baby steps. On one hand it is kind of surreal, on the other hand, it is very real. Each day is a new...
by Barbara | Feb 25, 2015
I meet so many young adults who are "spiritual but not religious." What does that mean? It is like saying I love coffee but smelling it suffices I love to experience nature but I don't leave my house. I love God....but I can't imagine actually going to church and...
by Barbara | Nov 6, 2014
“Why do you bring God into every conversation?” This simple question was posed to me recently by someone I love dearly. Let me attempt to explain. How do you not bring the Author of Life into life itself? How can I speak of the reason for my joy, my hope, my strength...
by Barbara | Oct 31, 2014
You don’t know me, and sadly, I don’t know you. Why should you care what another voice among the millions is saying? Because, I believe I have good news. Like so many, your story has crashed into my world, just as cancer crashed into yours. As expected in your very...
by Barbara | Oct 9, 2014
Watching the rhythmic ocean waves hit the shoreline can be calming and I've found reassuring as well. It makes me think about the constancy of God's love for each of us. It is always reaching out for us, consistently, gently. Always beckoning and inviting us that we...
by Barbara | Sep 24, 2014
These five little unassuming words by St. Pio of Pietrelcina, (Padre Pio), are as simple as they are powerful! Pray- God is waiting there beside you, closer than the very air you breathe. Speak, but learn to listen. Ask, but don't be afraid to act. Trust and...
by Barbara | Sep 8, 2014
"If you do not speak out to dissuade the wicked from his way, I will hold you responsible for his death. If, however, you warn the wicked to turn from their ways, but they do not, then they shall die in their sins, but you shall save your life." Ezekiel 33:8-9 Those...
by Barbara | Jul 25, 2014
I came across a great quote by St. Teresa of Avila, "Leave it in God’s hands, where it belongs." It struck me as do many writings of the saints, of the pure simplicity of that statement. Whether you are Catholic or a Christian of another denomination, one...
by Barbara | Jun 28, 2014
A quote by St. Catherine of Siena that struck me recently was this; "Start being brave about everything. Drive out darkness and spread light. ...
by Barbara | Jun 24, 2014
Fr. Matt was our guest speaker at a recent Date Night, the purpose of which is to enrich marriages. We had an incredible turn out and as I sat there smiling to myself and thanking God, Fr. Matt spoke on some common communication challenges. A counselor had shared with...
by Barbara | Jun 10, 2014
Kind of rhym-mie isn't it? It is part of the "Come Holy Spirit Sequence" said each year on Pentecost. It sounds wonderful and mysterious in Latin, Veni, Sancte Spiritus. The rest of this particular sequence is this: "Where you are not, we have naught, nothing good in...
by Barbara | May 29, 2014
I was doing my morning prayer a few days back when this seemingly sublime quote really knocked me between the eyes, " What gifts do you want to make to future generations through the life you are living now? Wow, powerful huh? It wasn't asking what are you doing now...
by Barbara | May 10, 2014
Tomorrow dawns on the continental U.S. as mother's everywhere are remembered and cherished by cards, calls and candy. Not necessarily in that order or limited to those means of gratitude. I too am a mother and now a grandmother, but it wasn't always so. The road to...
by Barbara | Apr 23, 2014
"What are you discussing as you walk along?" Jesus asks the disciples heading to the village of Emmaus. "Looking downcast," they related the events of the last few days involving Jesus. Their eyes were prevented from seeing it was Jesus Himself to whom they were...
by Barbara | Apr 14, 2014
"Behold this heart that loves so much yet is so little loved." From Jesus to St. Mary Margaret. Imagine the pain of rejection on an infinite level after so great a sacrifice. Jesus further speaks, "When you give me your sins, you give me the joy of being your Savior."...