Why have a national holiday that's very purpose is gratitude oriented? For all intense and purposes it offers folks a few precious hours to stop, reflect, and remember that everything is gift. It is right and good to stop and celebrate each other, the bounty and the...
Reflections
Glad You Asked
by Barbara | Nov 6, 2014
“Why do you bring God into every conversation?” This simple question was posed to me recently by someone I love dearly. Let me attempt to explain. How do you not bring the Author of Life into life itself? How can I speak of the reason for my joy, my hope, my strength...
Dear Brittany Maynard
by Barbara | Oct 31, 2014
You don’t know me, and sadly, I don’t know you. Why should you care what another voice among the millions is saying? Because, I believe I have good news. Like so many, your story has crashed into my world, just as cancer crashed into yours. As expected in your very...
Tidings
by Barbara | Oct 9, 2014
Watching the rhythmic ocean waves hit the shoreline can be calming and I've found reassuring as well. It makes me think about the constancy of God's love for each of us. It is always reaching out for us, consistently, gently. Always beckoning and inviting us that we...
Pray, Hope, and Don’t Worry
by Barbara | Sep 24, 2014
These five little unassuming words by St. Pio of Pietrelcina, (Padre Pio), are as simple as they are powerful! Pray- God is waiting there beside you, closer than the very air you breathe. Speak, but learn to listen. Ask, but don't be afraid to act. Trust and...
Holding Ourselves Responsible
by Barbara | Sep 8, 2014
"If you do not speak out to dissuade the wicked from his way, I will hold you responsible for his death. If, however, you warn the wicked to turn from their ways, but they do not, then they shall die in their sins, but you shall save your life." Ezekiel 33:8-9 Those...
Leave It
by Barbara | Jul 25, 2014
I came across a great quote by St. Teresa of Avila, "Leave it in God’s hands, where it belongs." It struck me as do many writings of the saints, of the pure simplicity of that statement. Whether you are Catholic or a Christian of another denomination, one...
Being Brave
by Barbara | Jun 28, 2014
A quote by St. Catherine of Siena that struck me recently was this; "Start being brave about everything. Drive out darkness and spread light. ...
Swinging At Junk Balls and Other Life Lessons
by Barbara | Jun 24, 2014
Fr. Matt was our guest speaker at a recent Date Night, the purpose of which is to enrich marriages. We had an incredible turn out and as I sat there smiling to myself and thanking God, Fr. Matt spoke on some common communication challenges. A counselor had shared with...
Where You Are Not, We Have Naught
by Barbara | Jun 10, 2014
Kind of rhym-mie isn't it? It is part of the "Come Holy Spirit Sequence" said each year on Pentecost. It sounds wonderful and mysterious in Latin, Veni, Sancte Spiritus. The rest of this particular sequence is this: "Where you are not, we have naught, nothing good in...
Through Your Life
by Barbara | May 29, 2014
I was doing my morning prayer a few days back when this seemingly sublime quote really knocked me between the eyes, " What gifts do you want to make to future generations through the life you are living now? Wow, powerful huh? It wasn't asking what are you doing now...
Peace, Is It Possible
by Barbara | May 20, 2014
Today I am away from all my usual craziness and in my own little corner of paradise which makes this time so sweet. I believe with all my heart that God wishes to pour his peace on us. It couldn’t have been more evident than when we read the account after the...
Mothering and Miracles
by Barbara | May 10, 2014
Tomorrow dawns on the continental U.S. as mother's everywhere are remembered and cherished by cards, calls and candy. Not necessarily in that order or limited to those means of gratitude. I too am a mother and now a grandmother, but it wasn't always so. The road to...
Love Creates
by Barbara | May 5, 2014
At least one hundred times or more I've said, "We are created by Love for love." While I would love to take credit for such a simple yet profound statement I would be lying and taking credit for someone else's inspiration. Caryll Houselander, a deceased British...
Emmaus Explored
by Barbara | Apr 23, 2014
"What are you discussing as you walk along?" Jesus asks the disciples heading to the village of Emmaus. "Looking downcast," they related the events of the last few days involving Jesus. Their eyes were prevented from seeing it was Jesus Himself to whom they were...
Rejecting Christ
by Barbara | Apr 14, 2014
"Behold this heart that loves so much yet is so little loved." From Jesus to St. Mary Margaret. Imagine the pain of rejection on an infinite level after so great a sacrifice. Jesus further speaks, "When you give me your sins, you give me the joy of being your Savior."...
Holiest Week
by Barbara | Apr 13, 2014
Happy Palm Sunday to all! This begins Holy Week in preparation for the most amazing event in all of human history-The Passion, Death and Resurrection of Christ. Really deliberately think about this event all week. Enter into it. This is love, real love. Laying down...
Proposing Love
by Barbara | Apr 8, 2014
Exciting news permeates the air as two of our sons posed the question of life-long commitment, and never ending love to their girlfriends. Both said yes and so the fun and planning begins. I love how our family is growing. The amazing gift of observing them as they...
Why Jesus?
by Barbara | Mar 31, 2014
Who is Jesus? If God, then why bother with humanity, let alone descend into our fallen nature and become one of us? I see the value in what the insect world does, but I would never want to become one and show them a better way. Yet, God who loved us into being, in...
Everything New
by Barbara | Mar 17, 2014
Driving down the road yesterday I couldn't help but notice the brilliance of the colors as they exploded in the morning sunlight. The San Diego Reds were on fire, the Palo Verde burst forth green and yellow buds, even the normally dull grey mountains seemed to stretch...
Making Lemonade
by Barbara | Mar 8, 2014
Today held great promise. I breezed through security, (unheard of). Got right on my flight to Los Angeles and was looking forward to some time with my other daughter and new grandbaby, who could of known or flight would have to be turned back half way there limping...